Humans are equipped with the most powerful weapons, but many people don’t even realized that. These weapons can be good, can be bad, can be used to help, can be used to destroy. It’s all depends on the “user”, in this case it’s us, the human itself. What kind of weapon I’m talking about?
According to Google, the most powerful weapon is “Tsar Bomba (RDS-220 hydrogen bomb) – 50Mt” – (Army Technology)
Google shows me that the most powerful weapon is something destructive. And no, I’m not going to talk about that kind of weapon on this blog post.
The most powerful weapon is within us. We’re equipped with it, but many people don’t even realized that. What are these weapons I’m talking about? They’re our mind, and our feeling. How is that even possible?
Often times people blame other people, or even blame God when things gone wrong, or when things got worse. We get angry, sad, disappointed, happy, hurt, enjoy, relax, and other feelings. Often times people say that other people are the cause of their unhappiness, while actually it’s they themselves who cause it, why?
There are two things in life: things that we can control and things that we can’t control. We can’t control how other people treat us, but surely we can control ourselves, we can control our attitude, we can control how we deal on how other people treat us. We can’t control death, but surely we can control the way we take care of our health.We surely can control how we deal with our mind, how we deal with our feeling, how we deal with what happened to us. Don’t let disappointment, anger, sadness, and other negativity take over your life, you can control those negativity.
Like what I said before, these weapons can be good, can be bad, can be used to help, can be used to destroy. It’s all depends on the “user”, in this case it’s us, the human itself. If you let negativity control your life, then of course it will destroy you. Here’s the thing: we humans are equipped with feelings, positive and negative feeling. The most happy people in the world are not those who never ever felt sad, angry, disappointment, and other negative feelings. Of course they also experience that, what makes happy people different is how they deal with their negativity then convert it into their wisdom and strength. We all need positive AND negative feelings, good AND bad things, we need to experience both of them, but many people deny the fact that we need those negative feelings and bad things. We need both of them to make us balance. Those negative feelings and bad things build us stronger and wiser.
Let all feelings flow into yourself, happiness, joy, sadness, anger, disappointment, missing, loss, positive, negative. Because we need them to build us, to shape us, those feelings help us to be stronger and wiser. But, many people choose to let their mind and feelings control their life, they let disappointment, or sadness take over their life, drown and sucked into blackholes. This is what I said as destructive weapons. Many people don’t even realized that the most powerful weapon is actually within themselves, same goes with happiness, happiness is also actually within ourselves, your happiness is not on where you are, is not on who you are with, is not on what you have, is not on what you don’t have, is not on what other poeple say about you. It’s in you, waiting to be discovered. What happens to you are the trigger of the happiness that’s inside you. You can define happiness as many as you want, for example, for you happiness is when you’re with your loved ones. That’s your definition of happiness. But still, happiness is in you, and your loved ones are the trigger for happiness to showed up. I’ve seen a really good quote, it goes like this: “what is more deadly, a gun or a thought? A gun gives you the opportunity, but a thought pulls the trigger of the gun” If you can control your mind and how you deal with your feelings well, it can help you to be stronger and wiser, and of course it can be the opposite, the most powerful weapon can be destructive if it’s not maintained well. Happiness is in all of us, but to be happy is a choice, you can either let happiness inside you to shines, or let happiness inside you to fades away.